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It works both ways: there are victims of tragedy who come to me who have experienced grief of such magnitude that they cannot reconcile. Likewise, I cannot change the mentality of those who committed the crimes or the fools who followed them.
Paddy Ashdown
Politician · British · b. 1941
This book, conceived in sorrow, composed in grief, and constructed at the brink of despair, contains my mind's best thoughts, and my soul's triumph over the powers of darkness.
Isaac Mayer Wise
Clergyman · American · 1819 – 1900
To be bowed by grief is folly; Naught is gained by melancholy; Better than the pain of thinking, Is to steep the sense in drinking.
Alcaeus
Poet · Greek
Don't grieve. Anything you lose comes round in another form.
Rumi
Poet · 1207 – 1273
And now, once again, I bid my hideous progeny go forth and prosper. I have an affection for it, for it was the offspring of happy days, when death and grief were but words, which found no true echo in my heart.
Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley
Author · English · 1797 – 1851
He that is thy friend indeed, he will help thee in thy need: if thou sorrow, he will weep; if you wake, he cannot sleep; thus of every grief in heart he with thee doth bear a part.
Richard Barnfield
Poet · English
Grief is only the memory of widowed affections.
James Martineau
Philosopher · English · 1805 – 1900
Let no one weep for me, or celebrate my funeral with mourning; for I still live, as I pass to and fro through the mouths of men.
Quintus Ennius
Poet · Roman
Mourning is not forgetting... It is an undoing. Every minute tie has to be untied and something permanent and valuable recovered and assimilated from the dust.
Margery Allingham
Writer · English · 1889 – 1966
Well the themes for me were and remain sex and love and grief and death - the things that make us and undo us, create and destroy, how we breed and disappear and the emotional context that surrounds these events.
Thomas Lynch
Politician · American
Of course, I also hear from critics who detest what I do, and while sometimes I feel rather proud of having made various the loathsome people or groups angry, at other times I wonder why I put up with such grief.
Orson Scott Card
Writer · American · b. 1951
Grief is a process, not a state.
Anne Grant
Poet · Scottish · 1755 – 1838
Sorrows cannot all be explained away in a life truly lived, grief and loss accumulate like possessions.
Stefan Kanfer
And in the afternoon they entered a land - but such a land! A land hung in mourning, darkened by gigantic cypresses, submerged; a land of reptiles, silence, shadow, decay.
George Washington Cable
Novelist · American · 1844 – 1925
We are all victims because of the circumstances, but I'm not sure what to say to any one who has lost a loved one. I know the feeling myself, and words just don't do much to ease the pain.
Lonnie Earl Johnson
Criminal · American
My heart burnt within me with indignation and grief; we could think of nothing else. All night long we had only snatches of sleep, waking up perpetually to the sense of a great shock and grief. Every one is feeling the same. I never knew so universal a feeling.
Elizabeth Gaskell
Novelist · British · 1810 – 1865
Grief is perhaps an unknown territory for you. You might feel both helpless and hopeless without a sense of a "map" for the journey. Confusion is the hallmark of a transition. To rebuild both your inner and outer world is a major project.
To grieve is something extremely difficult, we don't even know how to begin to grieve, and I don't know how you can be taught to grieve.
Charlotte Rampling
Actress · French · b. 1946
Middle age went by while I was mourning for my lost youth.
Mason Cooley
Writer · American
If you've got to my age, you've probably had your heart broken many times. So it's not that difficult to unpack a bit of grief from some little corner of your heart and cry over it.
Emma Thompson
Actress · English · b. 1959
Teenagers too often have to deal with loss and death. You had to cope with the untimely death of your brother; how can young people deal with such tragedies?
Andrew Shue
Actor · American · b. 1967
After an eternity of seeking the sudden threshold of seeing and finding leaves one filled with a strange paradox of ecstasy and grief. I was born to see.
Joy Page
Actress · American · b. 1924
My work has typically been about finding a means to express memory and commemoration for loss and grief.
John Regan
Musician · American
Grief changes shape, but it never ends.
Keanu Reeves
Actor · Canadian · b. 1964
I think we brothers realised his loss more and more as we grew older. We actually grew closer after his death.
Raj Kapoor
Actor · Indian · 1924 – 1988
Politicians... talk in generalities and lies, and I think they've caused all our grief. They're so awful, they're really funny. I hate thinking this because my dad loved politics.
Paul Lynde
Comedian · American · 1926 – 1982
I've got to worry about Alonzo Mourning, because a year or two ago there was a chance that Alonzo Mourning wouldn't be standing here talking to you. That's the cold reality of it.
Alonzo Mourning
Athlete · American · b. 1970
Grief causes suffering and disease.
Daniel D. Palmer
Celebrity · Canadian · 1845 – 1913
They have - they do still hit me occasionally, and it's an overwhelming grief for what - even though my life is so good now, even including going through treatment for cancer, my life is incredible.
Lynn Redgrave
Actress · British · 1943 – 2010
For me as an American, the most painful aspect of this is that I believe that that administration has taken the events of 9/11 and has manipulated the grief of the country and I think that's reprehensible.
Dustin Hoffman
Actor · American · b. 1937
When Michael died I was tipped over the edge. I was beyond grief.
Paula Yates
Entertainer · Welsh · 1960 – 2000
To re-live these characters would be wonderful, because I know when the show ends it will be huge mourning process.
Gillian Anderson
Actress · b. 1968
Touch'd either the Passions of Rage or Grief to a Miracle.
Barton Booth
Actor · English
My heart is so light that it's amazing. I get to play all this grief, all this loss, all this disaster and chaos. It's hysterically funny. I am very light.
Linda Hamilton
Actress · American · b. 1956
It was a huge shock. I've never had hair that short in my life! I think the rest of the cast and crew were mourning my haircut more than I was! But after a while, I felt liberated, I learned to embrace it.
Camilla Belle
Actress · American · b. 1986
Grief is like a moving river, so that's what I mean by it's always changing. It's a strange thing to say because I'm at heart an optimistic person, but I would say in some ways it just gets worse. It's just that the more time that passes, the more you miss someone.
Michelle Williams
Actress · American · b. 1980
Friendship improves happiness and abates misery, by the doubling of our joy and the dividing of our grief.
Marcus Tullius Cicero
Statesman · Roman
Suppressed grief suffocates, it rages within the breast, and is forced to multiply its strength.
Ovid
Poet
Happiness is beneficial for the body, but it is grief that develops the powers of the mind.
Marcel Proust
Author · French · 1871 – 1922
Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live.
Norman Cousins
Editor · American · b. 1915
Whoever happens to give birth to mischievous children lives always with unending grief in his spirit and heart.
Hesiod
Nothing endears so much a friend as sorrow for his death. The pleasure of his company has not so powerful an influence.
David Hume
Philosopher · Scottish · 1711 – 1776
The tortures of present death disturb him not, but the recollection of his fall, fills him with a holy sorrow.
John Strachan
Clergyman · Canadian · 1778 – 1867
The thirst for powerful sensations takes the upper hand both over fear and over compassion for the grief of others.
Anton Chekhov
Dramatist · Russian · 1860 – 1904
Allowing children to show their guilt, show their grief, show their anger, takes the sting out of the situation.
Martha Beck
Author · American · b. 1962
Loss and possession, death and life are one, There falls no shadow where there shines no sun.
Hilaire Belloc
Poet · English · 1870 – 1953
I feel like the writer observing the grief, but it is difficult to be detached from it.
Hugh Leonard
Dramatist · Irish
Grief knits two hearts in closer bonds than happiness ever can; and common sufferings are far stronger links than common joys.
Alphonse de Lamartine
Poet · French · 1790 – 1869