175 quotes
Kindness in ourselves is the honey that blunts the sting of unkindness in another.
Grantland Rice
Journalist · American · 1880 – 1954
Today we are afraid of simple words like goodness and mercy and kindness. We don't believe in the good old words because we don't believe in good old values anymore. And that's why the world is sick.
Lin Yutang
Author · Chinese · 1895 – 1976
Kindness and intelligence don't always deliver us from the pitfalls and traps: there are always failures of love, of will, of imagination. There is no way to take the danger out of human relationships.
Barbara Grizzuti Harrison
Writer · American · 1934 – 2002
It has always seemed strange to me... the things we admire in men, kindness and generosity, openness, honesty, understanding and feeling, are the concomitants of failure in our system. And those traits we detest, sharpness, greed, acquisitiveness, meanness, egotism and self-interest, are the traits of success. And while men admire the quality of the first they love the produce of the second.
John Steinbeck
Author · American · 1902 – 1968
People are governed with the head; kindness of heart is little use in chess.
Nicolas Chamfort
Writer · French
Thousand got away to other countries; thousands returned to Spain tempted by false promises of kindness. By the tens of thousands, these Spaniards died of neglect in the concentration camps.
Martha Gellhorn
Journalist · American · 1908 – 1998
Beginning today, treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight. Extend to them all the care, kindness and understanding you can muster, and do it with no thought of any reward. Your life will never be the same again.
Og Mandino
Author · American · 1923 – 1996
When kindness has left people, even for a few moments, we become afraid of them as if their reason had left them. When it has left a place where we have always found it, it is like shipwreck; we drop from security into something malevolent and bottomless.
Willa Cather
Author · American · 1873 – 1947
I feel no need for any other faith than my faith in the kindness of human beings. I am so absorbed in the wonder of earth and the life upon it that I cannot think of heaven and angels.
Pearl S. Buck
Novelist · American · 1892 – 1973
One cannot help being impressed by the protesters. They have begun each day of the protest in Kiev in prayer and all activities are accomplished with a collective sense of respect, kindness, and an intention to conduct a peaceful revolution.
Bob Schaffer
Politician · American · b. 1962
You have discovered so much kindness and good will to those you thought were oppressed, and had no helper, that I am sure you will not despise what I have wrote, if you judge it will be of any service to them.
Jupiter Hammon
Poet · American
There is overwhelming evidence that the higher the level of self-esteem, the more likely one will be to treat others with respect, kindness, and generosity.
Nathaniel Branden
Psychologist · American · b. 1930
When your dreams tire, they go underground and out of kindness that's where they stay.
Libby Houston
Poet · British
A tree is known by its fruit; a man by his deeds. A good deed is never lost; he who sows courtesy reaps friendship, and he who plants kindness gathers love.
Saint Basil
Saint · Greek
If you stop to be kind, you must swerve often from your path.
Mary Webb
Novelist · English · 1881 – 1927
We should be inspired by people... who show that human beings can be kind, brave, generous, beautiful, strong-even in the most difficult circumstances.
Rachel Corrie
Activist · American · 1979 – 2003
Do the best that you can in the place where you are, and be kind.
Scott Nearing
Activist · American · 1883 – 1983
You know, gentlemen, that I do not owe any personal income tax. But nevertheless, I send a small check, now and then, to the Internal Revenue Service out of the kindness of my heart.
David Rockefeller
Businessman · American · b. 1915
There are realities we all share, regardless of our nationality, language, or individual tastes. As we need food, so do we need emotional nourishment: love, kindness, appreciation, and support from others.
J. Donald Walters
Author
I will say that since our capture we have met with uniform kindness, and while in the penitentiary our relations with the officers have been cordially pleasant, and for their considerate and kind disposition we feel profoundly grateful.
Cole Younger
Criminal · American · 1844 – 1916
When you carry out acts of kindness you get a wonderful feeling inside. It is as though something inside your body responds and says, yes, this is how I ought to feel.
Harold Kushner
Clergyman · American
Learn to know every man under you, get under his skin, know his faults. Then cater to him - with kindness or roughness as his case may demand.
John McGraw
Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things, in which smiles and kindness, and small obligations given habitually, are what preserve the heart and secure comfort.
Humphry Davy
Scientist · British · 1778 – 1829
The words of kindness are more healing to a drooping heart than balm or honey.
Sarah Fielding
In the context of interfaith encounter, we need to bring to the surface how our actual beliefs shape what we do - not simply to agree that kindness is better than cruelty.
Rowan D. Williams
Kindness is the cause of all anxiety.
David D. Burns
Writer
I go now before the milk of Human kindness goes sour for me.
Philip Francis
Politician · English · 1740 – 1818
I have no dress except the one I wear every day. If you are going to be kind enough to give me one, please let it be practical and dark so that I can put it on afterwards to go to the laboratory.
Marie Curie
Scientist · Polish · 1867 – 1934
I've experienced huge kindness here, a great welcome and some very generous reviews without the snide social edge I often suffer from at home. I'm not patronized here either, which I much appreciate!
Joanna Trollope
Novelist · English · b. 1943
I am unjust, but I can strive for justice. My life's unkind, but I can vote for kindness. I, the unloving, say life should be lovely. I, that am blind, cry out against my blindness.
Vachel Lindsay
Poet · American · 1879 – 1931
Anger may be kindled in the noblest breasts: but in these slow droppings of an unforgiving temper never takes the shape of consistency of enduring hatred.
M. Kathleen Casey
That is what has happened to the United States in the international economic scene. We have deteriorated into a debtor status so that we are now dependent upon the kindness of strangers. That is not where the world's leading power should find itself.
Paul Sarbanes
Politician · American · b. 1933
Rulers do not reduce taxes to be kind. Expediency and greed create high taxation, and normally it takes an impending catastrophe to bring it down.
Charles Adams
I will be sad. I've gotten very attached to Harry and all that goes on in his world, I guess I'll just be kind of tasting every bit of it because it will be the last one.
Mary Grandpre
Kindness is always fashionable.
Amelia E. Barr
d. 1919
Take care, be kind, be considerate of other people and other species, and be loving.
John Lithgow
Actor · American · b. 1945
Yoga is about compassion and generosity towards others. It means being mindful of the world around us.
Christy Turlington
Model · American · b. 1969
What we all have in common is an appreciation of kindness and compassion; all the religions have this. We all lean towards love.
Richard Gere
Actor · American · b. 1949
It was good to learn so early. They're not going to be kind to you. You have to do it and get on, and then gulp down and get better.
Judi Dench
Actress · English · b. 1934
I thought that would be kind of cool, to make a bad guy look sympathetic.
Christopher Atkins
Actor · American · b. 1961
People just take your kindness for weakness sometimes, and that's just the bottom line.
Ruben Studdard
Musician · American · b. 1978
For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone.
Audrey Hepburn
Actress · Belgian · 1929 – 1993
This city can be kind of brutal, so you see your dreams from every different angle, but ultimately it's about acting and if you enjoy acting, you will always enjoy acting.
Radha Mitchell
Actress · Australian · b. 1973
I made a promise to myself to be kinder to other people.
Lena Horne
Actress · American · 1917 – 2010
It's also selfish because it makes you feel good when you help others. I've been helped by acts of kindness from strangers. That's why we're here, after all, to help others.
Carol Burnett
Actress · American · b. 1933
Well, I think when we can turn to the person sitting next to us and really see them with kindness and see ourselves reflected back - when there's some dignity and compassion traveling back and forth.
Sharon Stone
Actress · American · b. 1958
Be kind to people on the way up - you'll meet them again on your way down.
Jimmy Durante
Comedian · American · 1893 – 1980
As a result of half a century of Soviet rule people have been weaned from a belief in human kindness.
Svetlana Alliluyeva
Celebrity · American · b. 1926